These last couple of months have been HARD. Like lots of tears, long nights, and trouble laughing hard. Like I should have bought stock in Kleenex hard. If I've been moody, depressed or distant with you, I'm sorry. So sorry. I have so many emotions swirling around inside of me all the time that it's difficult to know which way is up and I know the people closest to me are taking the brunt of it.
Yes. The last two and a half months have been hard.
But can I tell you what's good about the hard?
The hard brings out the people in your life who love you. The prayers people have prayed. The tears people have cried with me. The hugs people have given. The places to hide people have provided. The sense of normalcy when everything else seems abnormal. I would not have gotten through the last couple of months without my people. I will not get through the next few months without my people. The hard reminds me of who those people are.
The hard brings me closer to Jesus. It forces me to my knees because I can't handle it on my own. It makes me pray more, read Jesus' words more, worship more. It makes me trust him more. Because as I have prayed for wisdom and discernment and to know which way to walk, I hear his voice. It's not always loud. It hasn't been easy. But I know it's him. I know he's saying, "Trust me."
The hard reminds me of how big my God is. It puts children's songs running through my head to give me hope and encouragement. It brings to mind Bible verse upon Bible verse that I've memorized about how God can do what I feel is impossible. About trusting him. About resting in him.
This hard isn't going away yet. I'll admit, there are days when I wonder why God hasn't let me walk away from this situation. I've even come pretty close a couple of times lately. But every time I've gotten close to walking away from this hard, God has stopped me. He's said, "Not yet. Trust me." And so I do my best to trust. And I cry and I pray and I hope and I get discouraged and I keep fighting and I pray and I figure out how to adjust my eyes back to Jesus and the cycle repeats itself about a million and one more times.
I don't know how this hard will ultimately end up. I do know that right now, God is calling me to trust him with the hard. And part of that trust, is trusting that God will show me when this specific season of hard is over... no matter how it ends.
I've found that I don't particularly like the hard. I don't know many people who do. But what I do like? I like the results the hard produces. I like the times I draw closer to Jesus. I like seeing the people who love me support and love on me. I like knowing how big my God is. I like knowing that I can trust God, because he's a good God, who loves me and wants the absolute best for me.
This season of hard isn't easy, but I'm trusting that God will make it worth it.